Meet Like-minded Brothas and Sistas at the

East coast
Revolutionary Singles Find Black Love Event

Saturday, April 13, 2019 ♦ 8:00 AM

Our Core Belief

We believe that our communities are stronger when Black men and women come together to form strong unions. The singles scene is really daunting. We believe for those seeking real and meaningful relationships, finding your compliment should not have to be so hard. So we joined together to help.

Find Black love was created by married elders, a psychologist, an educator, a wedding officiant, community leaders, community activists, relationship experts, and eager Black singles who each contributed their best ideas to create this.

The event was also developed to go beyond dull meet and greets, or speed dates to give singles real opportunities to meet one another, and begin healthy introductions with relationship potential.

Hey East Coast, Come to Raleigh

New York, New Jersey, Philadelphia, Maryland, DC, Virginia, Atlanta, Georgia, Charlotte, Raleigh, Charleston, South Carolina, and Florida! Where are you?

For the East Coast Revolutionary Singles Black Love Event



Conference, Dinner, & Black Love Gala *

  • 100% Black-owned venue, hotel, caterer, invited participating companies, and media sponsors


  • Get inspired again
  • Meet like-minded compatible matches
  • Engage in relationship building activities
  • Learn from "tried and true" examples of how to Find Black Love
  • Learn from Elder Couples who exemplify Black love


  • Discover how to make eating a great bonding experience
  • Make real connections over dinner
  • Enjoy delectable food from a well-known chef
  • Vegan and vegetarian options available

Black Love Gala

  • More social time to connect with matches
  • African fashion contest
  • Get a chance to be crowned African King or Queen of the Gala
  • Chances to win the raffles and prizes
  • Guest DJ
  • Surprise Celebrity Entertainment
  • Performances
  • After Party
    * details subject to change

Watch the Video with Participating Singles

Register to find what are you searching for



$ 260.00 $ 129
  • Matchmaking Conference
  • Bonus Dinner Affair
  • Black Love Gala & Social

Conference Only

$150 $ 99
  • Matchmaking Conference
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Dinner Only

$ 60
  • Bonus Dinner Affair
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Gala & Social Only

$ 70
  • Black Love Gala & Social
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Frequently Asked Questions


This event was created with elders who have marriages that exemplify revolutionary black love as a model for success. They have raised strong Black children and helped others in the community find Black love. The event was created by married elders, a psychologist, an educator, a wedding officiant, community leaders, activists, and eager Black singles. It was also developed to go beyond dull meet and greets, or speed dates to give singles real opportunities to meet one another, and begin healthy introductions with relationship potential.

Saturday starts early at 8:00 AM. We suggest you arrive Friday night and get a good night’s rest so you’ll have energy to can attend the conference, dinner, gala, and after party.

Yes, the registration form asks some questions that the experts pre-selected to help match you. Also, there is a post-registration longer questionnaire that will help identify compatibility with other participants.

Men have one registration form. Women have a separate registration form. The separate event registrations ensure that when the event sells out it will be gender balanced.

For singles seriously interested in meeting someone, the dinner is an opportunity to interact with others who attended the conference. It’s an opportunity to explore with others who developed the same communication and relationship improvement techniques learned at the conference. We’ve held this as a special separate event for the VIPs to give you your best opportunity to meet someone on the same path.

Yes. The VIP regular price ticket is $260. The early bird special is $129 until January 31st. Use coupon 4BLACKLOVE

The Conference only discount code is PDR21 The early bird special is $99 until January 31st.

Don’t worry. We’ve got you covered. This is about healing the relationships between Black men and Black women so we’ve structured it so it’s gender balanced.

If you’ve paid and refer 5 paid registrants you’ll earn a free discounted VIP ticket for yourself a $129 value. Be sure your friends write your full name in their registration form at the time of registration. This is the only valid way to claim the referral bonus.

Yes, there are limited volunteer opportunities. If you would like to volunteer contact

You have 24 hours after the purchase of your tickets to cancel your hotel or event registration. After 24 hours, your non-refundable spot in the conference is secured. You may transfer your registration to another qualifying applicant under special case by case circumstances with approval from Find Black Love.

At the conference we want you to feel comfortable while also looking nice. Choose an outfit that represents your style.

Dinner is dress to impress.

You can wear the same outfit to the Gala or do a quick wardrobe change. African attire is recommended but not required

As for packing consider your activities before and after the event day and hotel amenities like the gym and pool. Perhaps you want to pack 3 casual outfits, semi-formal outfit, comfortable shoes, dress/dance shoes, bathing suit, workout clothes etc.

We want our singles to have a unique experience. We welcome sponsors to participate in native interactions. All of our sponsors have a complimentary table available. Click here to learn how to sponsor love.

We realize you may need to leave early on Sunday to get back home for work on Monday. If you can linger, there will be some informal activities going on. You can use Sunday to make get to know the meaningful connections you made.

Bring clothes and travel accessories, yourself, your positive, honest, open heart and mind, and your positive single friends who also believe in the mission of Find Black Love and registered.

Ummm….it’s a surprise. Play the quiz to guess. All correct guesses win a free raffle ticket.

Venue Information

Where to find us


Please Note: The event take place at the Ezra Conference Center 3670 Bastion Ln, Raleigh, NC 27604, see the map for exact information.


To get to the venue place, you can take megabus lines, RDU Airport or Amtrak service. All the services are comfortable to reach into place.


Holiday Inn Express & Suites Raleigh NE. Flexible, functional space defines each guest room. All hotel rooms are well equipped with a Microwaves and refrigerator

Schedule of Events

Optional game night at Black-owned Bennu Cultural Center for those who are local or arrive in town early.

8:00 Arrival
Welcome and Opening Ceremony
Healing exercise – Breaking the cycle, letting go of baggage and being present to attract and keep a healthy relationship
Elder lead session – Tip for brothas and tips from sistas
Fun group activity –
Elder lead session – Duplicating models of successful warrior elder couples
Fun group activity – Coming together
Manifest self-determination
4:00 open mix and mingle with compatible matches
5:00 Dinner
7:00 Open schedule (change & get ready for the gala)
8:30 Gala – Dress to impress in African attire
Opening ceremony
Best dressed king and queen contest
After party
1:00 AM Event ends

Have brunch with one potential match or in groups to converse and get to know each other at local Black-owned venues.

*subject to change at the sole discretion of the organizer without notice